Backyard spells Upside Down

April 1, 2008

It’s good to have a cool bunch of colleagues who defined drinking and alcohol as a "hobby"

The babes……

If sales didnt work out for you, the porn industry is waiting!

Me and my girlfriends

Mr photographer must be drunk. He cut someone else’s head!

Singles in the HOUSE!

Alcoholics in the HOUSE!

and

Picture of the Year!

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xoxo

Dear MM,

I needed to write you this email because I want you to know I supported you all the way, whatever you do, you have me. Because no one understand you more than I do.

Finally you left the relationship. You knew you deserve better than just some fraction of what you wanted. As you said, the attachment to your ex lingers. It lingers because you never succeeded in making him fulfill your needs completely. You said it feels as if you failed. You feel that somehow not getting what you wanted was your fault.
If you were only good enough your ex would give you the love you wanted, all of the time. After all, he did give it to you some of the time. It’s not your fault and you are not the one to be blame. If he chooses to behave like a child, let him. You’ve done your part, and your best to salvage the friendship. Most people would feel very angry, and justifiably so. But, anger is a way to stay connected to someone, albeit not a positive way. Anger is one reason he may have difficulty letting go of this relationship. You mentioned you would give him the time and stand by him. But please don’t allow him to hurt you ~ emotionally. It’s not your fault. You have a great life ahead, great career and many friends who love you to death! You are much happier and contented the last time I saw you. And I love seeing this part of you which glow. You will always have me. I’ll stand by you.

XOXO.

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